Fats Are Fuel — Not Foe: The Truth About Cooking Oils vs. 1-Cal Sprays
For years, diet culture has cast oils as villains — more feared than the Evil Queen in Snow White.
Tiny bottles of guilt, dripping with shame and “hidden calories,” blamed for every missed weight-loss goal. In most commercial diets, they’re the first to go.
But the truth? The right oils are liquid gold — nourishment for your hormones, your gut, and your nervous system.
And for those of us who actually enjoy food, they make everything taste divine.
My Turning Point: When the Spray Stopped Making Sense
I’ll admit it — I used to do it too.
Spraying, measuring, feeling smug that I’d outsmarted calories.
Then one night, I caught the smell of my 1-cal spray sizzling in the pan.
Something about it made my stomach turn. I paused, took the pan off the heat, and washed it out.
That smell — synthetic and sharp — reminded me of a lesson from years ago.
At a spa, a therapist once asked me to smell the oils before my treatment and choose the one I liked best. When I asked why, she smiled and said:
“Your body knows what it needs. If you don’t like how it smells, don’t put it on your skin.”
It hit me later — the same must be true for what we put inside our bodies.
So, this time, I listened.
The next day I bought coconut oil, and my nose was happy. So was my gut.
That was the day I started asking:
What else have we been trained to fear that’s actually trying to feed us?
The Truth About 1-Cal Sprays
Those “1-calorie per spray” bottles are marketed as miracle hacks — but let’s decode what’s really inside.
Typical ingredients include:
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Propellants (butane, propane, isobutane)
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Emulsifiers
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Artificial flavourings
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Highly refined vegetable oils (soy, rapeseed, or canola)
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Anti-foaming agents
Why it matters:
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You’re not getting 1 calorie — a few seconds’ spray is often equal to a teaspoon of oil (~40 kcal).
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These are ultra-refined oils stripped of nutrients.
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Propellants and additives can irritate lungs and digestion.
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They add zero real flavour, zero nourishment, zero joy.
In short: it’s not saving you calories — it’s costing you connection to your food.
Extra Virgin Olive Oil: The Queen’s Elixir
Calories: ~120 kcal per tbsp (14g fat)
Nutrients: Polyphenols, oleic acid, vitamin E, antioxidants
- Supports hormonal balance — Olive oil’s monounsaturated fats help your body create sex hormones like estrogen and progesterone, key to energy, mood, and metabolism.
- Reduces inflammation — Its antioxidants calm the immune system and ease chronic fatigue or that “wired but tired” feeling.
- Gut + brain connection — Polyphenols feed good gut bacteria and strengthen the gut lining, sending “safety signals” via the vagus nerve for calm focus.
- Practical use — Best for medium-heat cooking, dressings, or drizzling over roasted veg — flavour and micronutrients no spray can match.
Coconut Oil: The Warrior’s Fuel
Calories: ~120 kcal per tbsp (14g fat)
Nutrients: Lauric acid, caprylic acid, MCTs
- Quick energy without the crash — MCTs convert rapidly into ketones for brain fuel and stable energy.
- Antimicrobial power — Lauric acid supports immune and gut health by reducing harmful bacteria.
- Hormone + thyroid support — Healthy fats improve absorption of vitamins A, D, E, K and keep the thyroid — your metabolism’s command centre — happy.
- Practical use — Perfect for higher-heat cooking, baking, making homemade popcorn or stirring into oats for richness.
Reframing Fats: Cooking with Confidence
Cooking with real oils isn’t indulgence — it’s intelligence.
You can’t build a calm, hormonally balanced, strong body on fear-based nutrition.
Fats are how your body:
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Absorbs vitamins A, D, E, K
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Builds hormones and brain cells
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Keeps blood sugar stable
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Feeds the gut-brain axis (that 80% signal highway we talked about)
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Makes your food taste divine — and therefore satisfying
Fats are how your body learns safety, stability, and satisfaction.
They whisper to your nervous system:
You are safe to rest, safe to digest, and safe to grow stronger.
Your Next Step: Nourish, Don’t Restrict
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Because Queens don’t restrict — they replenish. 👑